2022 Last Minute Stocking Stuffers

Who doesn’t love the thrill of shopping for a stocking stuffer? Well, maybe a lot of people. Maybe ever you! But I do think there’s a certain art to it. 

Finding that cute item that might not cost much, might even be handmade, but in the end has a small connection between the gift giver and receiver.  

And that’s why I really wanted to focus on stocking stuffers this year. Because they can hold just as much meaning as the flashy appliance or car under a giant bow you’re getting to really surprise your loved one. 

So, without further adieu, here’s a few just as fabulous items you can stuff a stocking with this holiday season.

2022 Last Minute Stocking Stuffers

From Mundane To Artisanal

I love the trend of taking an everyday food item, and going fabulous and fancy for a holiday gift. In the end they can be giant fruit and cheese baskets curated with care, or just one specific item the perfect stocking size. 

I recently received this delicious whole grain mustard from France from the brand Trois Petits Cochons (French for three little pigs). A delicious find for anyone looking for a snazzy upgrade for their next sandwich and a stocking stuffer for your foodie friends. You can find it in person at The Shop. 

For Millennials, It’s Coasters

If there’s one thing my friends and I have learned as we grow into elder millennials is the importance of a good coasters. 

Did we listen to adults growing up who said to use them? No! 

Do we realize the importance of them now that we have our own furniture and antiques to take care of? Absolutely! 

On top of that, any millennial is a sucker for originality and something to make their character stand out. Which is why these coasters from Drinks On Me Coasters are the perfect gift. With their own quotes and phrases for any (truly, any) personality, you’re bound to find one your millennial loved one will adore. Found on their website or in person at The Shop. 

Locally Made Greeting Cards

A holiday card is always a lovely touch to any stocking. A personal message/greeting for the holidays with an (optional) trinket, bookmark, or gift card is never not a nice gesture. A way to step it up? Finding a beautifully local hand-crafted holiday card to use. 

Greeting cards are a great way to support local! Always a lower cost way for you to invest in your own community. 

The Shop’s own Mike Zippel’s series, Beloved Buildings, has a collection of cards that are perfect for the holidays this time of year, or any holiday! Now available at The Shop. 

What’s your favorite stocking stuffer? Let us know in the comments! 

MONEY & MATRIMONY: Planning A Holiday Wedding

Welcome back, dear reader, to Money & Matrimony! The monthly series where I look at the intersection of spounces and spending, and try to demystify the financial nuisances of nuptials. Basically help you make budgeting and spending money on your next wedding easier!

When I started working in weddings, I always thought back to one of my favorite memories growing up. I was 8 (I think?) years old, and my entire family got invited to our family friend’s wedding on New Year’s Eve. 

And for those of you who don't know, yes, even in South Carolina (where I grew up) it gets very very very cold on New Year’s Eve. So to be attending an outdoor wedding on New Year’s Eve certainly was going to create a lasting memory. 

But as an eight year old, I was SO excited to be able to stay up so late and hang out with a bunch of adults! I felt so fancy and grown up.

And since then, I always thought that I would see more of these holiday weddings in my lifetime. There have been a few (mostly on Halloween) but overall, people typically avoid holiday weddings like the plague. Sure, it might be near a long weekend with bank holidays, but a Christmas, Halloween, or New Year’s wedding? Why not?

That’s what we’ll be talking about today. Going a bit more in depth on the financial pros and cons of hosting a holiday wedding. 

Pros and Cons of a Holiday Wedding

Better for the budget?

What are your plans for Christmas or New Year’s? Typically you’re going to parties at friends’ houses and/or visiting family right? Maybe going out to a club or more public party. These are typically the directions we go. 

Less often will you be going to a wedding. And it shows with venues. Venues don’t expect their holiday weekends to fill up nearly as fast as other weekends. That could mean good things for your budget! 

There’s less demand for the vendors or venues you’re looking for, and so they might hold an “off-season price” or more affordable price. Things to keep in mind. 

Also, going to a venue that is already decked out for that particular holiday means there’s built in decor. Another save for your budget! 

Deepens both the experience and memory! 

I meant it when I said that that new year’s wedding left a lasting impression on me. I thought it was the coolest way to ring in the new year when I was such a little kid. So for the couple it can only mean that much more.

Future holidays when you celebrate will not just be a holiday to remember, but your anniversary, as well! Maybe it’s a holiday that you both love so much already so in this case, the memories are only deepened. 

Guest List?...it’s hard to say…

I always tell couples to expect 75%-85% of the guests they invite to actually attend your wedding. If it’s on a holiday, well it’s hard to say. Certainly it depends on the holiday. For families, this could mean a larger influx than usual. Both weddings and holidays can often be built-in family reunions so combining them only means that many more cousins are attending. 

Friends and guests outside of the family circle, maybe not so much on family-oriented holidays like Christmas. Halloween or New Year’s might mean more on the friends end of things that is. 

Also, your venue and vendor might be less expensive, but we all know that holiday travel means more expensive flights and hotels. So keep that in mind when thinking of who you’re inviting and what holiday you want to plan around. 

Your 2022 Holiday Party Checklist

Okay so now that the King and Queen of Christmas have both made their entrances, we are officially in the swing of the 2022 holiday season! 

Well for most people (I for one love to give Halloween it’s due as my personal start, even if the holiday has got a bit more cobwebs). 

So what does that mean? Why, it means merriment, fun and fancy lights, cozy fireplace evenings around the tree, and above all else, THE PARTIES. 

I’m just gonna say it, dear reader, I love a good holiday party. I’m stuffed on charcuterie and chardonnay by 4pm and watching a holiday movie I’ve never seen before (or haven’t for at least 365 days) just to later be filled to the brim with more of the same along with laughs and love from close friends and loved ones. 

And, if I’m feeling up to it, I’ve been wanting to dip my toe in the hosting pool. I think it’s finally that time for me (that and my apartment is now big enough to both host people and keep a cozy vibe). 

And what about you? Thinking of doing the same? Asking yourself, “how to throw a holiday party?”

Well never fear! This double virgo party planner has done the digging and is ready to impart with you exactly what you need to know for the holiday soiree of your dreams. 

Oh and just for the record, this is for an at-home holiday party. I love a company party as much as the next Mad Men fanatic, but I’m sticking with at-home for this round. 

Your 2022 Holiday Checklist

Pick Your Date! Set Your Budget!

First and foremost (just like what I say with any wedding) figure out both your date and your budget. Put out feelers if you need to to see what dates work best for people. And don’t stress too much about your budget. In the end, your budget will be fine if you’re able to have clear delineations for food, alcohol, entertainment, favors, wiggle room, etc. Just making sure each aspect has a budget line. This is also where you can send out a save the date to friends, but before that make sure you…

Finalize Your Guest List!

Very important to remember! I’ve always heard the rule of expecting ⅔ the amount of people you invite, but in the end it differs from friend group to friend group (especially if it’s a more intimate affair). 

But always plan for more than anticipated, and set your RSVP date at minimum two-three weeks out (you can do sooner, but with so many parties happening this time of year, the earlier the better! 

Oh and did I mention set your RSVP Date? I did, and I will again!!! 

Establish Holiday Theme and Party Events!

You’ve got the guests and budget down, now let’s get creative! 

Create your theme (pretty easy when calling it a holiday party does half the job) and see what events/entertainment you can incorporate into the timeline of the evening. 

Going with a classic white elephant party? Putting a twist on the classics instead? 

Do you need to think about bringing in any outside help (like a bartender or server or DJ)? 

I would say this is the point where you can really finalize any major budget tweaks, especially as you get closer to that RSVP date. 

Did I mention adding an RSVP date? I did!!!

Make A Countdown!

Build up the momentum and get your guests excited! Oftentimes in this day and age people will set up a Facebook group where they set up invites. Use this to put in posts for themed cocktails you’re creating, white elephant rules, etc. This is a great time to create a buzz. 

It’s also a great time to make a countdown for the day of, and that wonderful RSVP date (I truly can’t stress that enough). 

HAVE FUN!

Okay so you’ve made it to the evening! Congrats! Sure you’ll be in hosting mode all evening, but remember that you set this up for yourself, as well. So with that in mind, make sure to stay present and have fun! 

Enjoy the ride of the night. Holiday parties and (almost) always once a year so take advantage of the love and merriment while you can. 

Save Your Ornaments (& Notes) For Next Year!

You did it! You made the party happen, and you should be proud of your hard work. 

Would you consider it again? Anyone who’s planned a party before knows there’s just some things you’ve gotta learn along the way. And if that happens to you, great! 

Take those notes to heart when you pack away your decor and say your goodbyes. That can only come in handy for a bigger and better holiday party next year. 

OIMDE’s Favorite Things - 2022 Holiday Gift Guide

Ho, ho, howdy, dear reader! A new year means a new gift guide! 

Last week, I dipped a bit into how our current economy is shaping our holiday shopping season for this year. In some ways, not ideal, but it’s also apparent that shoppers aren’t necessarily deterred from still making sure they check their family and friends off their list like they do every year! 

And one way that you can do this while still making a more conscious shopping decision for this year can be in the form of shopping local. 

So with that said, I shan’t hold you back any longer! Let’s dive right in to this year’s Only In My Dreams Events Holiday Gift Guide! 🥳❄️

2022 Holiday Gift Guide

This year we’re highlighting our Berkshire Packs! With many different themes for many different moments in our lives, our Berkshire Packs are locally sourced. 

We look at every Berkshire based artisan that we order from to make sure it’s the highest quality so you know your gift will meet the standards of you and your recipient. 

Below are just a few of the packs we have to offer! 

For The Aunt Who Said This Would Be Her Last Year Teaching, Again

You’ve got that one relative who truly has found their passion with teaching, and yet you know how tough the past couple of years have been for them. 

Welcoming them with a Rest and Restore Pack from our Berkshire Pack line offers them a hand selected at home spa that will surely aid them in keeping up their strength for one of, in my personal opinion, the most selfless jobs out there. 

You Don’t Wanna Give A Gift Card *Again* But…

I certainly have family members that I see their name on the list and ask myself I can’t go with the gift card again!! 

Now with that said, we have a Berkshire Pack that turns that on its head while also giving you some gifts, as well! Our Keeping It Local Pack is geared more like a starter for your own Berkshares journey. 

What are Berkshares you might ask? Put simply, it’s the currency of the Berkshire region. To take the spirit of shopping local even further, this pack comes with an amount of Berkshares that you can take to participating shops in the Berkshires to further ensure you are keeping the local economy not simply surviving but thriving! But a few small local goodies were thrown in the box, for good measure. 

Need to know where accepts Berkshares? You can follow this directory here! 

For That Friend Who Wants Something New

A few of our Berkshire Packs aim towards helping our specific institutions in the Berkshires, as well. One of my favs is our Inspired By Immigrants Pack, perfect for someone who is looking for something new to appreciate. The pack features a wide variety of items (subject to change) that were selected in tandem with the Berkshire Immigrant Center. And proceeds from your purchase will go towards BIC, as well! 

For The Cousin Who’s Always Following A New Trend

We’ve shown you plenty of ideas for our pre-themed packs, but it doesn’t stop there! For those relatives who just can’t quite fit into a mold (and good for them!) we are also able to fully customize a pack for you using items from our other packs, and other items from The Shop! We always say come by and see our selection in person to help make your decision. 

And that’s it! Our 2022 holiday gift guide, offering just a taste of some of our favorite things, and a taste of what you can expect when shopping with us this holiday season. Our Black Friday deals are listed here for this year along with some excellent sales, door prizes, and more ways to save and spend locally in the Berkshires. Check it out, and we’d love to see you! 

What you need to know about holiday shopping this year

We’re back at it again, dear reader! Coming in faster than Alyssa Edwards is the 2022 holiday shopping season! 

Each year we at The Shop look forward to how we can create a shopping experience for you and what unique opportunities our shopping can create for you. But with that comes a need to understand what the holiday shopping season is going to look like. 

And within the past few years, that’s more important than ever!

So let’s take a look, shall we? Let’s pull back the economic curtain (so to speak) and take a glance at what holiday shopping with look like for shops, for shoppers, and everyone in between. 

2022 Holiday Shopping Statistics 

Right on the outset we’re seeing that shopping is going to be less this year. According to a ShipStation study done this year, spending will be decreasing for up to 58% of U.S. consumers. That’s no joke! 

That said, a study this year by the National Retail Federation said that 62% of holiday shoppers surveyed felt that despite rising prices will make sure they shop for gifts, and celebrate their loved ones as they do every year. 

Consumers are wanting to see the value of their dollar go as far as it can, and that means making sure what they purchase has a stronger value. 

Not only that, but we’re seeing a rise in the want for sustainable products and gifts when shopping, especially among Generation Z.

Shop Local = Shop Smart

So what does that mean? What options are available when trying to find gifts that are not only sustainable but also of equal or increasingly higher value? Shopping locally, of course!  

Sticking to locally sourced gifts and products means returning money back more directly to your community, and in exchange getting a product that’s hand-crafted or small batch created. This ensures more attention was paid to the creation of the product, and almost always better quality.

Shopping local also can mean your product is going to be more sustainable, created from and/or supplied by a more sustainable source (of course mentioning the tried and true example of a hand-crafted product vs fast fashion). 

MONEY & MATRIMONY: How to negotiate with wedding vendors

Welcome back, dear reader, to Money & Matrimony! The monthly series where I look at the intersection of spounces and spending, and try to demystify the financial nuisances of nuptials. Basically help you make budgeting and spending money on your next wedding easier!

We’ve been spending the past few months looking at specific budget items that you might be including (like a certain sensible dress) and some tips that could help you prepare. But let’s take a couple of steps back and look at our wedding budget with a broader lens. Not only that, but let’s talk about some tips that can help you with your budget as a whole, especially as you begin to speak to wedding vendors.

That’s right, we're negotiating! 

How To Negotiate With Wedding Vendors

Have A Clear Idea Of Your Budget

Based on my previous entries with this series, this one might seem most obvious. I do still believe it’s worth stressing that you really should have a solid idea of how much you’re willing to spend overall, and also for each vendor. This is another instance of “why”.

When you get to the point of negotiating, this gives you a chance to see where you can finagle with your vendors, and which vendors you’re able to move the needle on regarding their prices. This will also help you to…

Pick Your (well researched within your budget) Battles

When deciding on your vendors, it’s always helpful to have a closer look into that vendor's prices, and fees, and any reviews that they might have gotten. This will give you a clear idea of what you’re paying for, and what you’re signing up for relationship-wise (depending on the vendor you could be working with them for an extended time period). 

Once you have that, and a well-researched budget, you can have an idea of where you would want to lean more into negotiating prices. 

Be Polite

This one might go without saying, but you would be surprised! 

We know that the wedding industry is a competitive market, but sometimes couples can underestimate just how competitive it can get to secure the vendors they want during their selected days. 

So with that said, be careful when you’re looking to negotiate. If you start haggling and coming off as someone a vendor wouldn’t want to work with, they can easily move on and work with someone else. 

Always assume there’s another couple who is looking at the same time you are, because chances are that’s exactly what is happening. 

That isn't a reason to panic, though! On the contrary, this can be a chance for you to learn more about why the vendor sets the prices the way they do. Figuring that insight out can help you with other vendors overall, as well, and give you more insight on where to put wiggle room in your budget. 

Thanksgiving Around The World

I’ll be honest, dear reader. I’m so fascinated by holidays around the world and their differences. 

I’ve talked before about how different holidays in America are celebrated elsewhere around the world. Typically, though, these holidays are all celebrating the same thing but the traditions of how might be a little different. 

That changes with Thanksgiving! 

As you know, Thanksgiving in America is that time of year right smack dab in the middle of the holiday season (it starts October 1 with Halloween and I won’t apologize for it!). Kind of a pit stop to rest, relax, and feast, as America gears up for the major arcana of the holidays. 

But the title of “Thanksgiving” isn’t as definitive as one would think from country to country. Not even as definitive as being synonymous with indigenous culture. 

So let’s take a look, shall we?

How Thanksgiving Is Celebrated Around The World

Canada

Let’s start with our neighbors to the North. Despite being celebrated on a Monday instead of a Thursday, Canadian Thanksgiving I would argue is one of the most similar to the American holiday and traditions. A feast to mark the harvest, autumnal vegetables are served (like in America) if not regional dishes, too (like salmon!). 

Historically, and also over simplifying, Thanksgiving was celebrated irregularly and on different dates depending where in the country you were. Eventually it was declared a civic holiday in 1872 and a national holiday in 1879. 

Japan

Formally titled Labor Thanksgiving Day, Japanese Thanksgiving is celebrated on November 23rd every year (unless the 23rd is a Sunday and then the holiday is observed on the following Monday). The holiday originally celebrates the year’s harvest, the festival then originally called Niiname-sai. 

But, the holiday we know of today was created after World War II to commemorate the work of those who contribute to public service for the good of the country. Kids will make cards and gifts for police, coast guard, and other public facing service workers. 

India

Thanksgiving in India takes on different forms and traditions depending on where you are, though not totally common. One area where it’s celebrated the most is in Goa. Under a different name, Ladin or Ladainha, the holiday is celebrated as a Christian holiday where those celebrating give thanks to God for their well being and they’ve been given. 

Wheat, candles, and tinsel paper are some of what is purchased, and altars are built for proper celebrations. 

Your Own Backyard

How do you celebrate Thanksgiving? What traditions do you or your family have that you keep year after year? Let us know! 

History of Halloween: Superstitions!

So last time we had a chat, dear reader, I wanted to talk to you more about why we have the traditions and customs on Halloween that we do each and every year. 

Last time we talked about the costumes specifically, as that is 90% (I mean I would say) of what people think of when they think of Halloween. 

But now let’s get a bit broader! Let’s look at superstitions! 

Why superstitions in total you might ask? Well, when I sat down to really think about what else from Halloween I wanted to know history-wise, everything I researched led back to some sort of superstition and/or old wives tale. 

So with that said, let’s dive right in and take a look!

History of Famous Halloween Superstitions

Black Cats

One of my favorites and the first one I wanted to really research! Why are black cats considered unlucky, or witches’ pets (if not witches themselves in disguise)? Why are black cats associated with Halloween for just about anyone?

So in some ways, the association of black cats and witches is part of a broader history. Witches, as far as back as the 15th century, in western culture would have familiars. A familiar was seen as a creature that a witch had, given to her oftentimes by the devil, as an assistant for her dastardly work. 

Outside of that, though, cats have long held reverence in religions and cultures for centuries. Thinking more specifically about the origins of Halloween in Samhain (which we discussed last time!) black cats were associated with the traditions of Celtic pagans, as they are striking nocturnal animals lurking in the shadows. 

Since then, black cats have kept a footing in the culture of the gothic, the alternative, and the subversive. In the 19th century in America is when we really started to see black cats in popular culture. To top it all off, Edgar Allen Poe’s, The Black Cat, really cemented the ebony feline in the hearts of those with an affinity for Halloween. 

But since we’re (sort of) on the topic of witches, there are other items connected to witches that I was curious to know the origin story of. Something like…

Witches’ Broomsticks

Why do witches ride broomsticks? Why broomsticks in the first place? Let’s talk about it. 

So, historically, witches have been depicted riding broomsticks as early as the 1400’s, with the very first depiction we know from 1451 from illustrations for a published poem by a French poet named Martin Le Franc. 

But why broomsticks??

Well, the two women in the illustrations, according to this source, are Waldesians. This is a branch of protestant Christianity, reformed faiths that separated from the Catholic Church. Also, brooms are a symbol of feminine domesticity. These illustrations then are implying that these two women are taking the ideas of domesticity and perverting them (having these phallic symbols between their legs so wildly). It certainly makes you wonder how the Catholic church, or at least those that are Catholics, felt about those are took a different religious path. 

These ideas of domesticity for the woman in the home, and the broomstick (with sweeping being such a definitive part of “keeping a home”) kept up and continued on throughout the centuries, and thus the connection with witches stuck. 

One other more literal example of “flying” on a broomstick, was at this time, hallucinogenic drugs couldn’t be ingested. They had to be applied to mucous membranes…like…well…let’s just say rubbing these on the end of a broomstick and sticking that between your legs really got the job done.

And when you’re tripping on hallucinogens, who’s not to tell you that you’ve taken flight?

Jack O’Lanterns

So this one is, probably, the most straightforward. 

The story of the Jack O’Lantern comes from an old Irish tale of a man named “Stingy Jack” who had a drink with the devil at a bar. True to his name, Jack didn’t want to pay for the drinks so he convinced the devil to turn himself into a coin to become the payment. 

But instead of paying, Jack took the coin for himself, and kept the devil coin next to a silver cross so the devil couldn’t transform into his proper form. 

Once Jack allowed him to do so, he lured the devil into another one of his tricks which led to the devil being stuck in a tree for 10 years. 

Once Jack died, God did think Jack was a pure enough soul for heaven. That said, Jack had made another deal with the devil during his lifetime that prevented the devil from taking his soul to hell, as well. So as such, Jack takes his soul and decides to live on in a hollowed out turnip, making a lantern. Each year we make our own “Jack of the lanterns” or “Jack O’Lanterns” in a similar way to what Jack himself did to make a home for his soul after he had passed on. 

Favorites From You!

Do you have any fun superstitions or traditions from Halloween? Let us know! 

History of Halloween: The Costumes!

Okay, so this is a fun one. I feel like Halloween is one of those more modern/secular holidays where people all the time will say “oh yeah I know the history of the holiday and where everything stems from” but either not actually knowing, or only having a more vague generic idea. 

Not to worry! I have truly wanted to do more of a deep dive on the history of Halloween so without further adieu…the History of Halloween! A mini-series where I explore the history of the holiday from it’s beginnings to where we’re at today!

The History of the Halloween Costume

Okay We Know Samhain But…

Samhain, /ˈsɑːwɪn, ˈsaʊɪn/, the pagan festival to mark the end of harvest season that began in Ireland, is where we typically associate most any origins the many traditions we continue and uplift every Halloween. And…costumes are no different! 

This is a point in the year when spirits wander the world freely, and when we as humans offer food to the spirits that wander. 

When dressing in costume, at this time you would dress up as various animals, you might be mistaken and considered a wandering spirit yourself, either by those around you or the spirits themselves. 

Eventually Chistianity swept up Samhain, and many of its traditions, with other pagan holidays as Christianity spread through Europe, shaping these holidays to fit their own teachings and beliefs. 

Costuming then took a different turn as people would then dress up to be like souls of those their passed on relatives, and later as demons and other spirits.  

How About In America?

Once there started to be a large wave of Irish immigrants in the 1800’s, Halloween as we know it today began to finally take root in America. 

And costumes were one of the biggest reasons that it spread so quickly! Costumes gave a sense of anonymity to the wearer, and with that and the comradery of dressing up in strange outfits, it was a no brainer! 

At this point, though, costumes were typically made with whatever was had on hand at home. And in a roundabout way, this is what led to one of the most iconic images of Halloween costumes, the bedsheet ghost.

The idea of the bedsheets most likely stems from the burial shrouds that were placed on bodies centuries before Halloween first appeared in America via Irish immigrants, but it was certainly a costume that had passed down. And with continuing with the idea of using whatever you had to make your costume, a bedsheet gets really as simple as it gets. 

Almost always recognizable, the look of the bedsheet ghost was even referenced as early as 1920 on a Saturday Evening Post cover by Norman Rockwell.

Like All Things America…Commercialism!

In the 20’s/30’s, Halloween costumes started to begin being mass produced and companies started to pop up that licensed popular IP to turn into Halloween costumes. 

One of the first? Most likely Mickey Mouse. 

Do I Need To Say The Rest?

I really think that Halloween costumes are a great barometer of popular culture of the year. Why wait for year end listicles online of what the most popular tv show is, when all you need to do is see the most popular costume of that year. In that way, because my favorite thing to do at a party is people watching, costumes are one of my favorite parts of the Halloween season. That and I get to look just absolutely fabulous. ✨

MONEY & MATRIMONY: What To Expect When Wedding Dress Shopping

Welcome back, dear reader, to Money & Matrimony! The monthly series where I look at the intersection of spouses and spending, and try to demystify the financial nuisances of nuptials. Basically help you make budgeting and spending money on your next wedding easier!

For this month, we’re digging back into some of the more benchmark moments of most wedding experiences, in this case one that many look forward to the most…wedding dress shopping! 

What To Consider When Wedding Dress Shopping

Plan Ahead And Begin Early!

For many people, wedding dress shopping is a moment they look forward to, wishing to find a gown that they will want to cherish for the rest of their lives. As such, many hopefuls will want to make sure they set aside a sizable budget to ensure they find just the right gown, are able to make their exact alterations requested, etc. 

And by many, we mean many. As a global market that is slated to reach almost $70 billion by 2026, it’s safe to say that this is a safe market to be in if you’re looking for security, with an almost endless demand. 

To make sure you take that demand into account, it’s wise to knock this off your wedding to-do towards the start of your planning journey. It’s even suggested by experts that you start looking as early as 1 year in advance if you really want to make sure you find the bridal gown of your dreams. 

Look & Feel The Part For Your Big Day!

When envisioning what you want to wear, and finding yourself spending a considerable amount of time in the bridal salon, we recommend really making a day of it. Carve out a good chunk of time in your schedule, if possible, and take some extra time in the morning to get ready. 

Put your hair up for a more formal situation, and go a bit more glam with your makeup. Try and think about what your hair and makeup would look like, not exactly right but having an idea can help you get a clearer picture when trying on the dress. 

Consider A Smaller Support System

It’s so tempting to bring everyone and their mother, grandmother, cousin, etc. And why not? The more the merrier to join in such an exciting day! 

That said, having a smaller, simpler group of 2 to 3 of your closest friends and family will mean less opinions in the room and a more focused appointment. 

Don’t Worry If You Don’t Cry!

I feel like there’s an expectancy of tears of joy when you finally find the gown of your dreams, right? Like you have come to the moment, and the lighting is just right. Everyone is tearing up, and the champagne bottle pops. 

But! It doesn’t have to be this way! 

And that’s okay. If you find the gown that you want, that’s what’s most important. And crying doesn’t need to happen to get your point across. If it feels right for you, then it’s right for the wedding day. 

How To Throw An Adult Halloween Party

I recently went to a wedding, that was one of those unintentional and unofficial reunions type of weddings. It was with a cohort of friends that I had met working at a summer camp back in 2012 and 2013. A blast! 

One of the more fascinating moments I kept noticing was how we all were like, “we really met a decade ago didn’t we?”

Not the first time this year I’ve seen old friends after a few years, and it just astounds us how long it’s been since we all saw each other. 

Why is that? Why does it feel like BLAM five, seven, ten years have gone by? 

Well, two things, really. 

A: Growing up. 

B: The past 2 years of our lives have kind of meshed together.

Ain’t that the way, though? Multiple friends I reconnected with all exchanged jovial pleasantries about how our social skills were put on pause because of quarantine.

But in my opinion, that’s all more the reason to make this year the best Halloween party you could ever have!

How? Well that’s what I’m here for, dear reader. 

How To Throw An Adult Halloween Party

Keep It Relaxing

I would say this is more of a “how to have a party after we’ve all been in quarantine for years” step, but nevertheless it’s important here. Why? 

Because Halloween is a great opportunity for a low stakes party. Encouraging costumes means your guests can let loose and not have to worry so much about appearance and impressions. It’s all in good fun.

Another thing I mean when I say relaxing is don’t worry too much about the agenda of the party. Keep things loose, and of course you still can have fun with games and such, but don’t stay attached to a timeline. Which brings me to…

Think Differently, Approach Differently

Really be it cocktails, snacks, whatever, you can take the same mentality of Halloween costumes to all parts of the party. 

Halloween is my favorite time of year because it’s an opportunity for people really have fun in magic and make believe. 

How can you incorporate Dracula’s curse into your batched cocktail? How can you throw in the story of the Wolf Man to your brownies? 

Dig Into Local Legend

One other aspect of Halloween I really love is how it gives us a chance to dig into local history and lore of the world around us. Sure on a national level, but also on a local level, too. What are the local ghost stories that surround you? Does your region have any cryptids? Believe they’re everywhere and there’s plenty more out there than you would anticipate. 

How can these stories, myths, and legends be infused in your decorations, cocktails, and treats? Any games you can incorporate?

What about sharing ghost stories around a fire? Because please we all know this is one of the reasons we look forward to fall. 

History of the Bridal Gown

I’ve mentioned this many times before, dear reader, but one very exciting thing that couples I’ve worked with love doing is making their wedding truly their own and go for something unique. 

And that said, one interesting consistency I’ve noticed is how many brides still vote for a white bridal gown. There isn’t anything bad about that of course. 

The bridal gown is, probably at this point, the most definitive part of a wedding. It’s the first thing we think of when we think, “wedding.” It’s what we look for and anticipate when we arrive as wedding guests. 

“What is she wearing?”

“Will she make her fiance cry?”

“Oh, isn’t she STUNNING.”

This is typically the general flow of conversation. And we love to see it! 

But why do we expect the bridal gown? Sure there are alternates out there, but unlike the ease of deciding on a pizza truck or donut bar, the choice to move away from the classic white gown is less desired. 

When did it come to become such a staple in the first place? Why white? And how did it get such lasting power?

Welp. That’s why I’m here. Let’s discuss! 

The History of the Bridal Gown

Dressing Pretty Ain’t New! 

So right off the bat we can all agree that wearing more formal garb, or at least something more expensive and ornate, is not a new tradition in the slightest. 

Wearing something of significance can be for religious purposes, cultural, or even more of what we do now. It’s a beautiful occasion and you want to wear something to commemorate the importance of the day. 

The White Gown Makes A Royal Debut

It’s within Western culture and history that you’re going to find the evolution into the white gown that we know of today. In ancient Rome, brides would wear white robes in honor of Hymen, the god of marriage (technically a mythic Greek god, but that’s how it worked for the Romans back then).

But if you jump forward a couple of millennia, you arrive at Queen Victoria! For her marriage to Albert of Saxe-Coburg, the Queen requested a dress made of the finest lace which, at the time, was available only in white. This also meant that maintenance would be incredibly difficult (you try keeping it a completely white garment clean in the 1800’s!), and as such the dress was only worn once. 

A Tradition Found Across The World

As the trend caught on, the color white also was growing to symbolize purity and virginity, something the church stated was important when going into the sacrament of holy matrimony. 

But white was also carried on as a tradition in other countries like Japan! It’s here that we also see the tradition of the bride wearing a white garment for her wedding (in this case a kimono) and changing into a new outfit for the reception (in the case of Japan, the bride changed into red as it symbolized good luck). 

And On And On And On

And so thanks to oral tradition, familial traditions, and the influence of the media, the white gown stuck. 

It wasn’t always like this of course, so don’t necessarily feel like you have to stay connected to this idea! In the end, this is your day. Do what makes you happiest, and wear what makes you happiest on what’s assured to be one of the happiest days of your life. Make it yours. 

If you’re interested in learning more about the history of the bridal gown, I found most of my research from an extensive deep dive found here. Check it out!

MONEY & MATRIMONY: How To Have An Affordable Destination Wedding

Welcome back, dear reader, to Money & Matrimony! The monthly series where I look at the intersection of spounces and spending, and try to demystify the financial nuisances of nuptials. Basically help you make budgeting and spending money on your next wedding easier!

I’ve covered destination weddings in the past (Still considering?), and looked at tips on how to really make your destination wedding the best it can be. 

But let’s really start to chew to the numbers. What kind of budget is needed for a destination wedding, and how feasible is a “cheap” one (maybe in budget but certainly not in taste)?

How Much Does A Destination Wedding Cost?

Like anything else, it all depends on what you want for your wedding, where you want to go, how many guests you want, etc. But if we’re talking baseline, the $30K range is going to be your best bet at a minimum.

How To Save Money When Planning A Destination Wedding

Start Early!

Start it all early! Pick a date and location that’s far enough in advance (if international I would argue at least two years in advance), and get your save the dates to your guests as soon as possible. 

Consider Travel Distance In Your Budget

Though there’s an apparent downturn coming, flights/travel are going to be a significant part of both your budget, and the budget of your guests (depending on how much of that you want to front for them).

So make sure you’re considering how much of your budget you’re willing to give over to travel. It can seem overwhelming at first, but look at the typical cost for the travel to the location, and the general cost of expenses once you’re there. For instance, a trip to a location that offers an all-inclusive package at a discounted rate might give you the wiggle room to splurge on a more expensive flight. 

Looking for those inclusive-packages? Checking here, here, and here will give you a good taste of options. 

Ask About Price Flexibility

Prices for bigger packages, group rates, and other package deals might be more flexible than you think. Working with a vendor/planner at the destination? Don’t be afraid to see where you can find some sort of discount or deal. This could prove easier than you think. 

Honeymoon Registry! 

This one should be a no-brainer at this point, especially because this is a trend. Don’t sign up for a gift registry for that Le Creuset (though, no judgment as I certainly would). Instead, ask your guests to help you chip in for your own honeymoon. This is always a good budget reliever for that honeymoon-experience of a lifetime. 

What else?

Have you made any cost-saving moves with a destination wedding budget? What has helped you? Let us know! 

Tips For A Non-Traditional Wedding

One of the biggest takeaways I’ve had this year, dear reader, is every couple that I’ve worked with, be it just a day-of coordinator or otherwise, is how they want their wedding to be non-traditional. 

They might not necessarily say that explicitly. Instead I will hear “we want our wedding to be true to who we are” and “we want a wedding that’s different from what we’re expected to do” etc, etc, etc. 

And this is exciting! The mold of what is expected for a wedding is changing, and we’re seeing trends! In some instances, couples have voted to keep the structure of what we know of as the “wedding day” but tweak each component to be more what they want. In other instances, I’ve worked with couples that want to change everything up altogether. 

So what does this mean? Is the “wedding day” as we know it gone for good? Absolutely not. What is happening is couples are realizing that they don’t need to go by any specific rulebook to do what they want to make their wedding as beautiful and true to them as possible. 

So let’s start looking into that! I feel like I’ve got a lot to say about this so if another post happens in the future, it’s because my coffee kicked in and I cannot stop. 

Non-Traditional Wedding Ceremony Ideas

The Attire! 

I would say that this the most obvious way for you and your guests to see that you’re wanting to do things a bit different. And the easiest change that we’re seeing! We all know the bridal gown is a staple (and is it’s own microeconomy honestly), but beyond that there are unspoken rules and expectations of bridesmaid’s gowns, tuxes for the groom and his party, etc. 

But more and more couples don’t want to adhere to these rules. And, on a more practical level, we’re seeing more same-sex couples married each year. The equation is changing, and as such the style doesn’t need to stay the same. 

So you don’t want a wedding dress? But maybe you want to keep the color, but a different style? Or maybe you want to keep the dress, but the traditional white gown moment just isn’t your look? There’s plenty of options! 

And on top of that there’s plenty of choices out there for the rest of your bridal party, as well. 

Two brides, two grooms, or someone in-between? There’s plenty of options for you to choose to break the mold of the black and white garments. 

The Ceremony!

Okay so you look amazing, and most importantly, you’re dressed how you want to dress. What about the ceremony itself? 

It’s fairly common now for couples to write their own vows. But what if you want to take it a step further?

I’ve had couples have their pets join them in the fun and be part of the ceremony. I’ve also seen couples who completely turn the wedding party on its head and invite whomever they want to be by their side. It’s all up to you and whatever you want for your special day. 

On top of that, couples might want their wedding to happen without an officiant. A quaker-style wedding offers the chance for couples to have a self-unifying wedding license. I’ve seen this done when a couple wants their entire community of friends and family to bear witness to their love and let that be all that needs to be done. 

What Have You Seen?

Have you seen any fun and unique non-traditional wedding ideas, either at your wedding or someone else's? Let us know!

Fall Fashion Trends In 2022

We’re rounding the corner, y’all. Crunchy leaves in many colors, candles scented like apple and caramel, and 50 different versions of flannel mean one thing. Autumn! 

And if the recent price increase in Pumpkin Spice Lattes from Starbucks tell us anything, it’s that autumn is a hot commodity with ever-increasing popularity. 

So what does that mean fashion-wise? Luckily this is my favorite season for clothing and style so you’re in luck! 

Let’s dive in! 

Fall Fashion Trends In 2022

Cardigans…But With ~Texture~

A fascinating find coming into this season is the love for a knitted moment that is very, very fuzzy. Cardigans, pullover sweaters, you name it. Give it some layers and dimensions that you can run your fingers through. 

Look for some Angora and Mohair, for instance. For more inspo, check out this gallery curated by vogue with some top-knit knits that are perfectly chic. 

Loafing In Comfort

Who doesn’t love the universal (and unisex, androgynous appeal) of a loafer. Good for multiple occasions from more formal to a sassy casual look, a staple pair of loafers in your wardrobe can really benefit your closet for seasons to come.

And this season is no different! So, how are loafers taking the stage this time around? Mary Janes and punky platforms are two big standouts. On the runway we have been seeing a lot of remixed prep looks and proto-punky fashions. Moving in either direction will keep you en vogue. 

Stand Out Accessories

This season is also all about the statement pieces. What’s a jewelry moment you can throw on that’ll just tie the look together? Or maybe a bejeweled balaklava is more your speed?

From eye-catching peridot rings to cashmere (there’s that wool again) gloves, finding accessories that you can add spice and variety to your staple wardrobe from the year before might be a great way to make your fashion finds more budget-friendly. 

A Season Of Originality

Overall, this season is an autumn for the bold. And the best fashion is all about self-expression and feeling your most confident. So why not? Throw on something you normally wouldn’t and have a blast! 

Berkshire Spotlight: Berkshire Botanicals

We’re back, dear reader with our Berkshire spotlight! One of the best parts of living in the Berkshires, which I’m sure you’re well aware of, is taking in all of the rich artistry that exists in Berkshire county.

One of the core beliefs of both Only In My Dreams and our store The Shop is celebrating and uplifting the artistry and creativity of all of us here in the Berkshires. It's one reason why we love offering boutique gifts and other items created by artisans all over Berkshire County!

For this month’s spotlight, we’re looking at the mother/daughter duo that bring us Berkshire Botanicals. Berkshire Botanicals is a collection of soaps, lotions, skincare, and more that puts organic and simple ingredients in the forefront. 

I reached out to Jené, the daughter of the entrepreneurial team, to dig a bit deeper into their beginnings, and what they love the most about the Berkshires. 

Sitting Down With Berkshire Botanicals

Where did the idea for the Berkshire Botanicals start, and how did it lead to what we see today?

Berkshire Botanicals started when my mother and I couldn’t find products with simple, natural ingredients so we started making them . A lot of consumers are unaware of the chemicals they subject themselves too on a daily based so they solution to our problem was to make our own using all natural and organic ingredients after years of experimenting, perfecting our recipes and gifting to family & friends they suggested we sell our products and Berkshire Botanicals was born.

What has been your favorite part of the journey of creating this business?

Working with my mom. It’s been so great to turn a hobby and something we enjoy into a business.

My favorite part is also hearing customer feedback on how much they love our products. Most of our customers are repeat customers and very loyal which feels amazing to bring joy to people.

What has been an unexpected part of the journey of creating this business? 

Running a small business is filled with lots of problem solving, having lots of faith, and trusting the process.

What’s one of your favorite spots in the Berkshires to tell people about?

Of course The Shop by OIMDE! I could spend all day there searching for unique gifts.

I also love Blantyre for brunch and Miraval spa. I also enjoy bike riding or boating around Onota lake.

What is a message you want to spread those in the Berkshires and beyond?

Give thanks, give love, and give yourself the best. We have a responsibility to ourselves and each other. Use your power as a consumer to support companies, people, and small businesses that are making change in the world. Buy organic, plastic free products, sustainable products. Take care of yourself; wellness is vital. Lastly BE the change you want to see in this world.

Berkshire Botanicals can be found online here, on Instagram here, and available at The Shop!

Should I get married in the Berkshires?

TL;DR Yes! 

That’s right, dear reader, I have been sitting on this one for a while, because I wasn’t sure if you needed any more convincing? I certainly don’t. 

And at the same time, I believe it’s worth just having a short, one-sided (because it’s a blog post you’re reading) chat all about why I love the Berkshires so much. What brings me back to this beautiful greeting card of a region for any season out of the year. Why do I think the Berkshires are the perfect backdrop for any holiday? Let’s talk.  

Why You Should Get Married In The Berkshires

Every season is great!

Have you seen the Berkshires? Like have you seen the Berkshires? Truly, have you seeeeen the Berkshires??

When I first moved the Western Massachusetts, it was a very crisp and cool early October, Tuesday afternoon. The trees were changing color beautifully, and I drove past countless sunsets. That’s right I literally drove into the most beautiful scenario of the Berkshires. The foliage the area is known for! 

Now that I have lived in Berkshire County all twelve months out of the year, I can safely tell you that any chance you get to go to the Berkshires you will enjoy the nature that envelopes you. Sure autumn is perfect, but what about the winter? With plenty of ski resorts, in the area there are seemingly unending chances to take advantage of the snow.  

And I know with this area being a cultural hub the spring and summer is the perfect chance to check out all sorts of artistic endeavors and outings. 

Each vendor out does the next.

Looking for a more artistic vibe? We’ve got that. How about a tried and true scenie view? We've got that, too. What about something a bit more modern and urban? That, of course, too.

One exciting trait about the Berkshires is that you can find a place that you will fit in. Somewhere where you can really feel the groove of what you’re looking for. And for wedding venues, this is second to none. 

Locally Sourced…Everything?

Lastly, and a personal favorite, is just how locally loved you will be in Berkshire county. Berkshire residents are first to tell you about supporting local, and the strength and community bond can be felt from Egremont to North Adams. Whatever you’re looking for to make your wedding happen, you will find someone in the Berkshires who will make that happen for you. And of course, we might have a tried and true list of friends, as well. 

Still not convinced? I implore you to give the Berkshires a look for yourself. I just know you’ll find a slice that’s exactly what you’re looking for.

FALL 2022 WEDDING TRENDS

I’ve seen the pumpkin spice latte videos on TikTok so that must mean that summer is coming to a close. And since TikTok is currently the most used search engine on the internet (beating out Google after nearly 2 decades!) it’s only certain that autumn is on the hearts and minds of all of us. Also maybe because of the record setting heat this year. 

But I digress, dear reader! As a double virgo I always love it when autumn rolls around, and can’t wait any longer. It’s the time of year where we must dive into all things autumn weddings, and look at the wedding trends of the year. 

Fall 2022 Wedding Trends

Why Fall Weddings?

First off, autumn is arguably one of the busiest times for the wedding industry, and mainly for practical reasons! Sure, the changing colors of nature provides a built-in aesthetic and the need for an extra layer or two means more chances to create the stylish wedding of your dreams. But, this is a very ideal time to get married weather-wise (the summer heat is about done and it isn’t winter yet, a perfect in-between). Also, summer plans for friends and family are typically out of the way at this point, but no one has set out for the holidays just yet. So there’s more availability. 

Wedding Receptions - Ditch The Dinner!

I’m involved with at least 4 weddings in the next number of weeks, and the common thread among all of them is the unconventional ideas for wedding receptions. Served dinners can come off as stuffy, impersonal, and expected. Couples are opting to give their guests variety and personal flare with unique buffets and food trucks. 

If you got a wedding coming up to plan, see if a more unorthodox meal is your speed. Be creative, and have fun!

Open Air Tents

Okay, so this one is exciting because this is what ended my wedding season last year. I worked with a couple who opted to remove the walls and ceiling (seemingly risky!) from their tent for a completely open air dinner, using the skeleton of the tent to string lights throughout the tables. After my teeth stopped chattering from nerves and the clouds were proven clear, it was the perfect decision, and the photos of the event were nothing short of gorgeous.

With more mild weather for autumn weddings, an open air tent could be your next move!

Destination Weddings

Turning your one day ceremony and reception into a relaxing getaway (even if just for a long weekend) is another common thread I’ve heard. Every week I chat with at least one or two couples that are looking for help planning their full wedding weekend for their guests.

And we’ve known for years now that millennials love experiences and are single-handedly fueling the experience economy, and we also know that millennials approach marriage differently than any other generation. So when considering what the wedding should be, millennials want this moment in time to really mean something and be a signifier for their future. 

Not only that, but coming out of so many years of lockdown, it’s time to make a weekend with loved ones count. One that will last. 

Still considering if a destination wedding is right for you? I weighed out some of the pros and cons here, and talked more about budget-friendly tips here. 

What’s Next?

Getting married this fall or attending a fall wedding or two? Let me know what trends you see in the comments! 

MONEY & MATRIMONY: WEDDING DRESS COST AND TIPS

Welcome back, dear reader, to another edition of Money & Matrimony! Once a month on the OIMDE blog, I take a look at the financial side of weddings and events, and dig deep to untangle the seemingly mind-numbing money hoops when planning a wedding. 

One of the reasons I started this series in the first place was stripping down the multiple very large purchases that you’ll come across when planning your wedding. We’ve talked about venues, planners, and packages. What’s next?

Yes, the dress. 

One of the most romanticized parts of the wedding planning process right? Oftentimes the “something new” in the much used adage. 

But how romantic is the process of wedding dress shopping really? Brides can learn the hard way that there’s no need to rush a moment like this. Let it happen and take its course, and the dress will come to you with time. 

Okay sure, that’s all fine and dandy but we’re here to shop numbers. What does it mean to financially when you’re wedding dress shopping and what are some things to consider when shopping for your wedding dress? 

Let’s dive in. 

Why Do Wedding Dresses Cost So Much?

Let’s get right to it. Why are wedding dresses so expensive? To put it simply, multiple reasons. 

First off, the cost of materials. So often brides are looking for intricacies and details in their dresses so that they’re showstoppers. That right kind of embellishment and embroidery will make a world of a difference. For instance, consider your photos. What do you want to be wearing and look like in photos that will last for generations to come?

Opting for a simpler design? Even with that, the cost of the fabric will still be a chunk of change. Wedding dresses are constructed with the intent of lasting for decades, and even potentially passed down from bride to bride. These points are all considered when making the garment, really proving that a bridal gown is going to be an investment. 

And these points can certainly put pressure on the bride! It’s an investment that shouldn’t be taken lightly, and one that she (presumably) plans on only doing once in her life. 

Do Wedding Dress Appointments Cost Money

The day of wedding dress shopping doesn’t charge an admission fee, but maybe if you miss your appointment altogether. Though, the shopping experience of it all should be taken seriously while still having a blast. It’s an exciting day! It’s also a day where you’re considering (and even then potentially making) a very large investment. 

So all in all, go into shopping day with your wedding dress budget in mind, what you want your dress to look like and not look like, and options that you could be swayed on. You’re about to make a very exciting purchase, so breathe and enjoy the ride!

HIKING TIPS FOR BEGINNERS

I’m headed to the West Coast in November! It’s my first time ever, dear reader. And, alright, just hear me out. I’ve spent almost my entire life (regardless of living here) on the East Coast. I’ve only just got my passport (well technically I got it in February of 2020 but…well…we all know what happened there).

Traveling the world, much less this country, has always been a big part of my goals and wants in life. It’s part of the reason why I enjoy wedding planning in the Berkshires so much. It’s given me a chance to see so much more of this area than what I normally would explore. 

But what does this have to do with events and weddings might you ask? Let’s go back to my upcoming November trip. I’m going to San Diego to visit a close friend, and she asked me what I wanted to do while I was out there. First request: a hike! 

Hiking is so often on the forefront of minds when thinking about what to do when visiting a new area.

Think about it. Imagine you’re throwing a destination wedding (if you aren’t already) and you’re wanting to round out the trip for your guests. What else can you offer so they can see the sights of wherever you’re headed? What about planning an event and looking for a main activity that can be as strenuous, or lack thereof, as you would like, and creates an experience of connection? Hiking!

And it’s not just here. A recent study has found that hiking has never been more popular in the US. 

So let’s dive into that! Let’s talk all about hiking, and give you a good overview if you’ve got hiking on the brain. And for proof, I’ll throw in a recent trip I took this year to the Appalachian Trail.

HIKING TIPS AND TRICKS

WHY IS IT GOOD TO HIKE?

The benefits of hiking really start pouring out as soon as you give it a thought. Right off the bat, hiking is an active form of cardio. It’s a chance for you to get moving and even potentially elevate your heart rate. Even more so there are plenty of physical health benefits to hiking. From heart disease to diabetes, and so much more, hiking can help as a preventative measure against multiple illnesses. 

What about mental health? Yup. Hiking can help that too! 

This past week, my boyfriend and I took a visit to Virginia, and had a hike along the Appalachian Trail up to Tinker Cliffs. Physically, the hike was strenuous enough to feel like we were getting in a solid workout (along with ample stretching after). But mental health wise? I’m no Virginia travel agent, but wow those 180 views speak for themselves. 

TIPS BEFORE GOING HIKING / WHAT SHOULD YOU HAVE WHEN HIKING?

Before our hike was a field day for my double-virgo brain, and I made a to-do and to-buy list of everything we needed and what to do before we set off on the trail.

To-do? Made sure we had a full idea of what trail we would be going on, considering both the elevation and the distance. What’s the weather going to be like? And, especially important in increasing years, when is tick season? 

To-buy? If we didn’t have it already, I made sure we had sunscreen for face and body, some sort of tick repellent, water (we spiced ours up with some hydration tablets), and protein bars. Our trek was going to be around 4 hours total so we needed to stock up! 

It might seem like a lot, and just for a day hike you don’t need but what you can use as refueling. I guess a camera to capture the views is a good idea, but we all have one in our pockets anyway. 

Any more than this? Honey, that’s backpacking and that’s a blog for another day.

Last tip I would say it’s make sure you’re wearing a comfortable pair of closed-toed shoes. I love my Chaco sandals as much as the next crunchy granola, but if you’re exploring a trail you’re unfamiliar it’s best to stay covered in the toes. You could very well be thanking yourself later! 

WHERE SHOULD I HIKE TODAY?

In your backyard! Seriously, the beautiful Berkshires aside, hiking trails can be found virtually anywhere in the USA. And with hiking increasing in popularity each year, it’s a no-brainer that there are so many options for you to use to find the hiking trail perfect for your next outing. 

Need any more convincing? Here’s some photos from our trip. Believe me, they speak for themselves.